On attachment that ruins love
“While contemplating the objects of the senses, a person develops attachment for them; from attachment lust develops, and from lust anger arises. From anger comes delusion, and from delusion bewilderment of memory. When memory is bewildered, intelligence is lost, and when intelligence is lost one falls down again into the material pool.”
What Krishna means for you
Krishna explains the anatomy of heartbreak. Obsessive dwelling on a person creates attachment; attachment becomes desperation; when desire isn't met, rage and confusion follow. The cure isn't to love less — it's to love without clinging.